NOT EVERYONE IS GOING TO LIKE YOU
This is a tough pill to swallow no matter your age. I experienced it as a child, a young adult
and even as a senior. It was true as
much in my personal life as it was in my business life.
For whatever reason, some people are just not going to like
you. They don’t want to be your
friend. They don’t want to hang out with
you. They don’t want to talk to
you. And chances are, they won’t even
interact with you.
It can be tough at times.
You meet someone and you admire something about them. You might even think you have things in
common. You try to interact with them
and they look through you like you aren’t there. Others might tell you “she is so great! You should get to know her.” And you are thinking, “I have. She completely ignored me on 4 (or 5 or 100)
different occasions when I attempted to just talk to her.”
You know what you need to do? Stop trying to please this person or even
interact with them. Not everyone is
meant to be your friend or even in your life.
There are over a billion people on this planet. Just because a few people are rude or
plainly don’t want you in their life is just a blip on the screen. Always go for quality over quantity. There are plenty of people who will think you
are the cat’s meow and better than a bag of chips! These are the people you want in your life.
If someone acts like they are better than you, let
them. Really, who cares? No one is worth your time who doesn’t make
time for you. Don’t waste your time
calling people who don’t return your calls.
Don’t send messages to people who ignore yours. Don’t try to hang out with people who make it
very clear they aren’t interested. Realize the truth and move on. You can't miss a friendship you never had.
Surround yourself with people who not only like you but love
you. Find those who share common
interests with you. Cling to those who
have proven their friendship. You know
the ones: They can talk for hours about
nothing. You spend hours with them
laughing. If you need them at 2am, they
are there for you just like you are there for them.
For all the others?
Let them go like water off a duck’s back. Not everyone wants to be your friend. Honor those who do and let the rest go. When you can do that, you will have made
peace and will be able to move on.
It’s a feeling of freedom like no other. Trust me on that!
copyrighted 2015
caryn cannatella
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