WHEREVER YOU GO, THERE YOU WILL BE
How many times have your seen others, or even yourself,
decide that if you can just change your scenery, or location, that your life
will somehow magically become different?
I know most of us have experienced it a time or two. For some of us, it is a way of life. We may say, “I know that change comes from
within” but we really believe that it is that new man/woman, that new house,
that new city, that new job that is really going to affect the change.
It doesn’t. No matter
where you go, who you are with, or what you are doing, the one constant is
YOU. If you are always looking for love,
you will be looking for it wherever you go.
If you are always lonely, you will still be lonely in a group of
people. If you are wishing for a change
in your life, you will still be wishing whether you live in the States or in
Russia. If you don’t have friends,
chances are that wherever you live, you won’t have friends.
Why? Because it truly
is about YOU. You are the common
denominator. You are the same wherever
you are, wherever you run, wherever you hide.
If you want to see changes in your life, then the change you have to
make first is YOU. You don’t have to do
an extreme makeover. Start small.
I see so many women who believe their worth is totally
dependent on whether they have a man in their life. The end result is that they are in a new
relationship about every 4 months, cry and moan when it ends, and wonder why it
never works out. The person they really
need to depend on for their worth is themselves. No one can give you what it takes to feel
worthy. It comes from within and that is
where the change has to happen.
If you are lonely and don’t have friends, pick one hobby and
make an effort to attend a function once a week or every two weeks to be around
others who enjoy the same hobby.
Smile. Make the first move and
introduce yourself. With each step you
take, your confidence will take root and bloom.
To manifest a true change in your life, you have to start
with yourself. Other people may
encourage you in changing but only you have the power to initiate it and see it
through.
With each tiny movement forward, you will see the change
more clearly. If you choose not to
change, then you will be where you are.
No matter where you go. It really
is true: Wherever you go, there you will
be. Decide what you that will be.
copyrighted 2014
caryn cannatella
Skinny Fiber Sales: www.caryncann.com
